幸福到底是啥（幸福是什么）

幸福是什么？

老子说，幸福是“无为而治”，顺其自然，不可强求。

罗素说，幸福是永远相对的，因为宝贵而珍惜，因为珍惜而幸福。

孩子们说，幸福是甜甜的巧克力，有好吃的糖果，有漂亮的新衣。

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我想，幸福的样子，大概是这样的

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学员：Lillian 幸福之家！

My family is a family of four, my husband TOM, two kids and me. I have married with my husband for eight years. Both of my two kids are daughters, the older one is 7 years old, the other is 4 years old.

My husband TOM is 40 years old, and he works for his own company. He is a workaholic and pepperbox. Usually he gets up at 8:00 and eats breakfast with in half an hour. That means he leaves home for work at8:30. It takes him twenty minutes to drive to the company. In the morning he mainly deals with problems of work and confirms something with workers. Then he looks for fashionable elements through the internet to develop new styles. After lunch he just takes a nap in the office, he goes to the factory to check the products' quality. Sometimes he also takes the customers to check their goods.Sometimes he also goes to our suppliers for communicating. During supper time,if he has customers in the company, he usually treats them to enjoy dinner then goes to bar or KTV and drinks until night. If there are no customers in the company,he will come back early.

Two years ago, I was also working for our company as a counter. But now I have to take care of my kids. I get up at 7:00 every morning. I begin to cook breakfast for my family at 7:20. I help my little daughter get up at 7:50. After finishing breakfast, I take my daughter to kindergarten and come back home at around 9:00. Then I begin to clean the house till noon. When I finish my lunch, I always want to take a nap. In the afternoon sometimes I go to kings and study English. Sometimes I go shopping. I pick up my little daughter at 5:00 P.M and arrive home at around 5:30 P.M. Then I begin to cook for my kids. When we finish our supper, my little daughter always likes to go outside to ride in my housing estate. An hour later we come back home,take a bath and go to bed at around 10:00.

My older daughter lives in the school from Sunday evening to Friday afternoon. That means except weekends, I need to take two kids and cook, I also check older daughter’s homework. I often feel I am a super woman. But it’s also very sweet to be with my two daughters. So weekends are tired but sweet for me. Every weekend I always take them go to children clubs or join hand DIY. Then we have a dinner outside. My children are always very happy, so I am very happy, too.

不难发现，幸福其实很简单，平淡的日常，和家人一起吃饭，一起出门...幸福没有比较级，当你在羡慕别人的时候，别人也正羡慕着你。

幸福如此简单，只要你愿意用心采集生活中的点点滴滴，幸福就在你身旁！